Bonny’s Blog

The psychology behind why we fall for what hurts us. The Dark Side of Love and Why We’re Attracted to What Hurts Us People talk about love like it is supposed to be soft and healing. I never believed that. Not because I am cynical, but because I have watched too many people chase the very thing that breaks them. I have watched myself do it too. We do not fall for what is good for us. We fall for what feels familiar, what feels intense, what feels like it carries the potential

The Moon Watched Me Bleed Said Nothing — VB Bonny’s latest poetry collection exploring silence, heartbreak, and emotional depth. There are writers who chase stories, and then there are writers who bleed them. I’ve never been the first kind. My world has always been split between the ache of poetry and the slow burn of romance — the versions of love we don’t admit out loud. The ones that bruise. The ones that resurrect. The ones that teach us more about ourselves than any trut